Your growth matters!

This is a call out to any of you who are endlessly putting everyone and everything first except yourself!

It is so easy to get caught in the trap of ‘doing good’. Of putting others first and of not spending enough time or money on yourself. Well I am here to call you all out on this and to say that:

You are important and your growth matters!

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The details of what you need to do for your growth are dependant upon what YOU need. For example, it might be that you need to make time for prayer in the morning. Or a swim. Or perhaps you know you need to do an art class. Or learn that instrument that’s been sitting in the corner of the room getting dusty. Or maybe you just have to get away for a week on your own. Or go visit family or friends in that far away country. Perhaps you need to sign up to that University course or learn that massage training. Whatever it is, you will know in your heart what it is, as it’s probably the case that you’ve been longing to do this but never committing to it for some time.

So if it’s important to you, why then have you not been doing it?!

Well, it’s often the case that we tend not to make enough time for ourselves. We can get consumed with trying to help others, which is great but sometimes this is at the expense of ourselves. But here’s the thing:

If you want to be of service, you have to be of service to yourself first!

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This is why coaches and therapists tend to have their own coach and therapist, so they can do their own work on themselves in order to grow and expand themselves so they can better help others.

So, as we move towards a New Year, it’s a perfect time to take stock. To remember who you really are and what is important to you. And to make sure that as you think about now and the New Year, you think about YOURSELF!

If you want some help with working out who you are and what you want in your life, I would love to chat with you. My Unleash Your Selfish Diva/Dude month package could be just perfect for you. You can check it out here.

So sunbeams … what do you want to make happen for YOU NOW and in 2015? What is important for your own growth? And how would your life and those you love and care about be enhanced if you made time for this?  I would love to hear your comments below.